Does this sound controlling to you?

[john]

I'm in my late 20s yet sometimes feel like I am 4 with the way my parents treat me. If I tell them a story that involves a friend, my mom goes, "Who's your friend? What's his name?" I had the chance to meet up with this girl while on vacation but didn't because my extended family was up there too and I didn't wanna be smothered by them. My aunt tells my mom all my Facebook statuses. If I don't tell my mom where I go every night, she google searches me, finds my Facebook profile, and looks at my check-in's. Recently a friend died and my mom was trying to control my emotions, telling me to move on, and then when I called her a control freak, both my parents berated me calling me the most selfish person they know, and that all I care about is myself (I was out all night consoling someone because of the loss). All through high-school I never wrote my own papers (If I told them I wanted to put my own ideas down, they would accuse me of not being able to take advice from others).