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After heart break I have no desire to meet a new woman.?
03-24-2014, 04:50 PM
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I was in a very similar situation, my boyfriend left me for a girl he'd JUST met. For me this came out of nowhere, I had no idea he wasn't happy in our relationship. I know how much it hurts. I didn't eat, didn't sleep, and broke down every time I was alone. Couldn't even look at other guys. No libido. Stupid things like commercials with people kissing, or puppies, or a song I thought he might have liked made me feel physical pain. I know right now it seems like things will never get better, but they will. It's a slow process. It takes time. Let it. Things will get a little easier each day. Stay busy. Delete her number. Do NOT answer calls/texts. Block her and the guy on social media. You'll be happier not knowing. I made the mistake of keeping in contact with my ex and trying to accept my their apology months down the line, but after being betrayed like that trying to fix the relationship was like trying to tape together a broken vase. Let them go. Your ex is obviously a very selfish, immature, fickle person. You two are not compatible at this point.
For me, it took about a year before I didn't wake up every morning with him on my mind. I still think of him sometimes and miss what we had, but I'm happier without him. I didn't really think I'd ever be able to trust again, but then I met someone new and we just clicked. It was easy. I felt like I'd known them for ages (cliche, I know.) You'll meet the right person, and you'll know. I think being with them has really been the final push for getting over my ex. I wouldn't recommend getting with someone just to try and get over your last relationship. I actually had a short "rebound" relationship, and if anything it just made things worse.

Good luck. I'm sorry.
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[] - Ree 9 - 03-24-2014, 04:40 PM
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