What does it mean when you partner wants space?

[widerat246]

Truly mature people who take their relationship seriously and make it a primary priority do NOT run away but run TO their SO for comfort, understanding and support thru the bad times-IF they are emotionally and mentally MATURE people.

He's NOT a man but a baby-boy. he may even be so immature as to blame YOU for it all...

You've already lost him....the bad times in his life have become more important that the relationship & love he supposedly had for you and while that love should have been his oasis and his strength, he has decided to junk it.

You deserve better. yes, you've invested a lot in him emotionally..but it's a bad investment...pull out NOW before the damage done to YOU becomes worse because despite what you think...he's taking care of himself nicely, believe me. You are there for him...but he obviously can NOT be there for you when it gets tough.

I don't get how rejecting YOU will clear up his confusion...and he won't add you on social media sites because he doesn't want you to see what he is doing, who he is talking to, and how he is talking to them....and how he is talking about YOU.

You say goodbye and walk away...shut the door and bolt it tight. Feel sympathetic for him but NOT at your own expense because Honey, the ONLY person he's thinking about is himself. If he eventually wakes up and realizes how shitty he's been and he's destroyed his relationship with you...well that's the price he needs to pay...but you should NOT pay it, too. Mourn the end of this chapter....and then head held high, go out and start a NEW chapter...you don't need to be in a relationship to validate your self worth and believe me...you won't be single very long I betcha... Consider this a lesson in how NOT to treat a relationship and when the right guy comes along...let this teach you to appreciate the man who DESERVES the appreciation.