Concerned by my wife's online activities?

[Neil Azavedo]

Well Michael you need to relax and take it slow and easy before jumping to any conclusions.

You and your wife met on this social media site... Now that means that you both have a habit of communicating with people through this medium. She still continues to visit the site.. do you?

Also you have a job to keep yourself busy, does she?

Sometime people have a habit of overcoming their boredom, by communicating with people online, or going out with friends, shopping, watching too much TV etc. This boredom is nothing but the lack of excitement or entertainment in their life that drives them to such mediums. It is ofcourse a very unconscious way of living because they are unaware of this unconscious attachment that brings some spice into their life.

Nowadays most prople are prey to this unconscious way of living. And you right now need to support your wife emotionally so that she can break that habit. So do not focus on her negatives right now as it will not help..

What you can do is engage consciously in your relationship and start to live consciously to break this pattern of unconsciousness that creeps into relationships, take your wife out to the park or something, be frank and open with here, bring empathy in your relationship by listenng to her with openness, spend time with her when possible etc.

But to do all that you have to first practice self awareness so that you do not live life unconsciously. I have explained my point of view in my channel listed in the source.