why I am still thinking about him after 10 years???

[tigeress]

Seeing him again trigger those old memories. The human mind is a wondrous thing. It has the ability to repress bad memories, and make the good memories seem even better.

Now, you are seeing how his life has turned out and knowing that might have been you, you are wondering if you made the right decision. We all experience this at some point in our lives, including myself.

If you haven't thought of him in ten years, until you saw his photos with his family, then it probably isn't love. Perhaps, envy or remorse. On the other hand, if you thought about him frequently over those ten years and searched for him online, then it probably is love.