Is this fate , a coincidence?

[fakeCubed]

Either we live in a deterministic universe, in which case all of our actions are predestined as a result of various physical forces acting on various particles and energy, or we live in a universe where things happen randomly at a subatomic level which may result in variation over set probabilistic curves. We have not yet devised a scientific test that can prove either scenario. However it would seem that free will is an illusion and merely the operation of either random or deterministic variables. You feel this way about this guy because of your DNA and socialization from your environment, neither of which you chose. Those same external variables led you here to ask your question, and read this answer.

Free will is irrelevant. Fate is irrelevant. Either you will fail or you will succeed. Pretend you have some control and can alter your destiny. It may not make a difference but at least you'll have no regrets if you try.