My husband hasn't called me for 4 days, I don't know if it's over?

[LadyChanceLove]

It doesn't sound like your husband is making an effort to keep your marriage going. You made a huge sacrifice by leaving your home to be with him. You stepped out of your comfort zone because you love him and are a good wife. If your own husband can't even give you a simple "hello" on Facebook, you are clearly not a priority to him. Call/text/message him that this is not the kind of marriage that you signed up for and if he's not willing to communicate with you then you will stop trying to reach out to him. He needs to realize what he's doing and if he doesn't, sadly, you may want to reconsider your marriage.