creepy guy took advantage of my innocence?

[wayfaroutthere]

He is manipulating you further by hoe-shaming you. Doesn't matter that you aren't a hoe. You are afraid he will make people think you are, and that you will be ashamed. That gives him power over you.

Hate to tell you this, but the only way to get over extortion is to ignore whatever chip or dirt is being held over you. If you don't care what he says about you, then he has no power over you. If you give him anything at all to stop him from posting something, telling someone something, or whatever--then he manipulates you into giving him a bigger chip that he can use to get even more from you later. If he wants to tell your dad what you do to yourself, tell him to make your day. Your dad will probably want to kill him-not you. You may be grounded for a bit and get your computer tracked by the parents--so what?

If all he has is posts of you saying embarrassing stuff, ignore him and block him. If he posts it, he posts it--you can't do much about that. If you give in and keep talking to him, meet him, or strip on snap for him, then he will get something even better to threaten you with.

That's why you beat extortion by saying "so what, tell the world, I don't care". Take the embarrassment or punishment for whatever he has on you, rather than giving him even more stuff to torture you with.