My ex..somebody please take a guess what happened the other day?

[wishnuwelltoo]

Bipolar did actually cross my mind at the beginning of the post. I am wondering if she needs counseling for events in her past. Despite her age she seems socially immature so it suggest she has issues she hasn't worked through. I am also wondering about drug and or alcohol issues with either her or being raised by parents with drug and or alcohol issues. There is a saying in psychology....How you do anything is how you do everything. So she is nice one minute and dumping you the next and this has been going on for a while....it suggest that without counseling she will continue this pattern for the next 20 years with you or any man in her life. It has nothing to do with you.....she has issues from her past that she is transferring to you. I would steer clear of her and close the door on this "relationship" since it seems that you getting hurt is the root of this roller coaster ride. Let her sort out her trauma on someone else. "get over the past" is an interesting comment since you were over the past and SHE is the one who keeps chasing after you. I think Get over the past is something that is a clue to what SHE needs to do. In the narcissistic mind...they often throw stones. So if they are lying.....they will accuse you of lying....if they are cheating....they will accuse you of cheating. They take their wrong and turn it around on the other person. Close the door on this mess. I am sorry you are hurting, but it sounds like she has a lot of issues that have nothing to do with you. Move forward with someone who isn't playing games at your age. People stop developing at the age of their trauma so since she is 23 and acting like 12 to 15......it is probably the age when bad things happened to her.