girlfriend looked at Facebook messages. HELP?

[James Blackley]

You say you didn't cheat on her yet the on the other hand you also realize the pain you have caused her... which is it? It's either you did cheat and you realize what a bad decision you made OR you believe you weren't in the wrong and you don't care you hurt her.... you need to figure out which one it is because your spewing off walking contradicitions here.

You did cheat though, asking other women for sex while in a relationship IS cheating and I don't care how much you want to justify it, there is no excuse for your disgusting actions. It's funny your so butt hurt over her merely being friends with other guys yet in your mind its ok for you to cheat with other girls? Talk about a huge double standard.

If you were having issues with your gf due to feeling insecure about her friends or feeling she didn't give you attention then you should have discussed this with her instead of cheating to stroke your own ego and causing a whole lot of damage along the way.

There isn't much you can do, the trust she had in you was shattered and now she wants to break up with you (which is well within her rights to do so) You didn't want this to happen? Maybe you should have thought about how YOUR actions would impact your girlfriend, but no you didn't because deep down your a narcissist who is only out for himself and doesn't care who gets hurt as long as his desires get met.