Should i tell his wife?

[Rojina Aktar]

Hold your horses-DO NOT go sounding the alarm to his "supposed" spouse online OR offline: even though you arent in the wrong here you would be effectively responsible for almost soundingthe death knell on their apparent marriage. The ins & outs of one's marriage is best left to the two people wed to one another,and it should be best left well alone by an outsider (Im sorry,but essentially that is what you are). I personally would not be able to break the news of infidelity or cheating by one's partner simply because of the devastation I d reek on an innocent party.

I d simply inform him that I ve seen his true colours or know the whole truth-I d message him on facebook then cease ALL contact with him: block him on FB,delete his number & texts,if he calls your mobile block his number,his email-EVERYTHING. I seriously would NOT suggest you call him or meet up with him in person as chances are that he ll try to talk you around by feeding you even MORE lies or offering false hopes & promises and you d be too weak to resist (Im sorry,but I ve been in similar situations myself,and never WAS able to hold on to my resolve!).

You are NOT "stupid" for falling for him-we ve ALL been there at one time or another. He deceived you by lying: he isnt the first bloke to do so,and you CERTAINLY wont be last girl to fall for such charm. Stop beating yourself up over it. Just be grateful you found out sooner as opposed to later.



Good luck!