why would a guy do this?

[Dee]

He's an idiot and possibly ashamed of himself too? You were honest with him, he gave the illusion he was a trusted friend AND then he attempts to make a move on you. When you declined, you "hurt" his feelings. And he wants to blame you because you indirectly shot him down and a "friend" shouldn't do that? wink wink So, in retaliation, he wants you to leave him alone, for now, because his ego and pride need to heal. BUT, there is a slim chance he'll be over it sooner than later, especially when he meets another girl, who will let him take advantage of her. Poor girl! And you won't care because you'll ignore him and just hang out with your friends. He's a creep and not worthy of you. Good luck and he did you a favor getting out of your life for good.