Do you view FB cheating the same way as an actual physical affair?

[Carson O]

Sorry to hear. Was recently in very similar situation. I hurts your heart. I know and u don't know how to approach it. After many weeks of dirty looks when her back was turned I just came out and told her that I knew and she needs to make a choose. I consider it emotional cheating which always in the end get to physical cheating. Funny thing is she thought I had no clue but I had already logged IMs and emails between them. Guess it showed that I cared. It changed her. I figure if I don't tell her she WILL cheat so best bet to tell her and let her be mad that I investigated her rather than my heart broken from her cheating. Plus she just feels alone and needs someone who can't relate to what's going on in her life so she can get it of her mind. Involve her more and talk and do things that don't remind her of her situation. Also stop telling her things will get better. It will just remind her of how long that process is taking. Good luck