Need answers please. How do I get this girl to go out with me? GIRLS, HOW CAN I MAKE HER WANT TO GO OUT WITH ME?

[Sherri]

First of all, take a few deep breaths, and relax for 5 minutes. You seem like a very sweet guy, and I am so glad that you referred to her as beautiful, rather than hot or sexy, this means you are really looking within her. It seems that the fact that she cancelled makes her mysterious, because you don't know what being out with her would be like. So, this makes you want her more. Although you do really like this girl, these feelings of wanting her even more, because she cancelled to go to prom with you, are symptoms of infatuation. I'd say follow the instincts of this feeling, and ask her on a date somewhere else. Ask her to a movie or to dinner. However, take the time to actually get to know her, because infatuation can fool you. In order to actually get to know her, you need to ask her out, and talk to her more. If she rejects you, then unfortunately she is not interested, and you have to let it go. If she says yes to a date, then this gives you an opening to get to know her. From there, take things slow, and see how it blossoms, you may really love her, or not like her at all. But, don't rush into things, because you want her more now. Also, it seems that the reason she is avoiding you is because she feels that you are upset or offended that she cancelled on going to prom with you. She is not a bitch for doing so, she most likely already had those plans with her friends. She is just being true to them. Let her know that you think it's great that she is choosing to enjoy her last dance of high school with her best friends, shows reliability. And ask her if there's a chance that she'd like to go on a date somewhere else. I would say talk to her in person, but if you are too shy, use text messaging, fb chat etc.

Hope this helps!