Was I Wrong to BREAK UP Her Marriage?

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If this story is true...yes you were definitely wrong to break up the marriage.

While I agree with you, being a waitress is a difficult job, I to have worked in the food industry and I know how its like to not receive tips from customers. But let me ask you something, have you ever thought about their financial situation? Do you think you are the only one in the world with financial problems? Do you even know how that other lady's financial problems are?

She must have a reason as to why she did not tip you. Most likely its because many customers believe that waitresses receive enough tips from other customers, so why bother. While that may be true but this idea is incorrect, it is nice to help out once in a while.

I personally think you need to mentally toughen up because the entire human race is like this, brutal, cold-hearted, and evil. If you did not like the fact that she did not tip you, you should not have cried over it. Because there might be others who can tip better and you will receive better in the future.

But what you did was very wrong and evil, you destroy a couple's marriage. You lied to the wife about husband cheating. How do you think the husband is feeling now? When their divorce happened, how do you think he felt during the hearing, signing of papers?

What I would suggest is that you block her and her husband, never be in contact with the two, delete your fake profile and avoid as much as possible. Move on with your life and only look back to one thing, that you need to be emotionally strong. Control your overreacting behavior as this could do more harm to you and maybe others.

Emotionally toughen yourself because there are more customers out there who will do the exact same thing as her so prepare yourself for the worse.