No Judgment Please?

[Mightyearthquake698]

I am only married to my husband because of a custody issue with my son (no comments on that one please...save it for another post..lol.) The guy I dated knew that. But he finally said we couldn't go on unless I got a divorce. That's fine. However, he still wants to talk, go places "as friends", and he wants me to be involved in his "business." However, when I try to be friendly and initiate a conversation thru text or on FB, he is often so cruel and mean that I end up crying! He tells that I'm pushy, I bother him, and I'm crazy. So I unfriended him. Then he blasted me for unfriending him. So, I added him back. He asked me to a poetry slam. I said yes, and tried to speak with him about a poem I am reading there, and he told me I was harassing him while he was busy. What gives? Why is he so mean...and why does he even want me around ever? And, he is always teasing me about "wanting it (sex.)" Which I don't. And we're not having sex now. I know this is a jumbled up mess, but that's how I feel. Not that it matters, but I'm a professional, attractive, and well-respected in the community. He's in a band, no car, lives with his parents, no real job, and he's missing a tooth...lol. I know, I know. Just help me figure out his motives please.