would a guy chat to me on fb if he wasnt interested?

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Yes, a guy would chat you up on fb if he was NOT interested. Guys do this all the time. It is just a fun way to pass time/ feed their egos/ prevent boredom/ etc. The only way to know if a guy is interested in you, is if HE seeks you out. If HE PURSUES you. Not the other way around. I know you are going to be like all the girls and ignore this, but it is the ABSOLUTE truth whether you like it or not. Because anything else means nothing; a guy would be just taking what you are "offering". And this guy will do that too, since you contacted HIM, and not the other way around. Any guy will do this, esp if there is a chance to "get some nookie". The guy that is not so interested in the nookie and truly interested in YOU, will PURSUE you. He will make it KNOWN. And not like a creeper, either. Good luck.