How do i stop stalking him?

[SemperFi3608]

Ask yourself what draws you to him. You know that he's a jerk which is a good thing because you recognize that he wasn't and isn't good for you. I'm not going to assume you feel this way but sometimes when a girl has been dating a guy whether it's for a short or long amount of time that she really likes, it's hard to let it go when it comes to an end. Mostly because you fell for him, and although he ended up being a jerk--you weren't prepared for it to end so quickly. Therefore, you're not over him and that's okay. It's quite natural honestly. The problem is, you're letting him control you without him even trying. When you look him up, it brings back memories of what was and what could have been, which immediately brings you down. Part of the reason could even be you're wondering if he's talking to any other girls and you may be asking yourself "What do they have that I don't?" Don't do that. If you find yourself wanting to search him, stop and think how it's going to make you feel and how ridiculous it really is. I don't mean that in a mean way but sometimes it helps to laugh at your own actions to get past something. He sounds like a complete waste of your time and you owe it to yourself to smile again and move on. A guy like that will never deserve you anyway.