Was breaking up the right decision?

[Lauren]

I am experiencing the same thing as you right now!! I recently broke up with my boyfriend of 9 months because we argued a lot and I was SO sad and felt like it was a mistake. This is normal. You were right to break up with him because he wasn't loyal to you. You deserve better than him.
My advice to you is to try and get away for the weekend. I did this and I feel so much better. Make a list of all of the things you didn't like about him. Stay busy. Hang out with your friends. Post pictures of you with your friends on Facebook to show you're better off without him.
This is your first relationship, so you can't really expect much. If you learned something from it, it was worth it. You did the best you could. I am proud of you for making the right decision; that is very difficult to do. It is normal to feel different ranges of emotion (going from okay toad to sad), this is also normal. Time is the greatest healer and you will get over him and find someone better soon