what does he want from me?! please read im exhausted?

[tea ali]

You should have just got your mom's pan, said good bye, and drove off.

It seems that he wants you to continue to be at his beck and call (...transportation...employment agent...break up...make up...sex...). Maybe he thought you weren't serious about breaking up. I mean, when he asked "youre really doing this?" you should have said 'yes' instead of "what are we then". You have basically told him that even though he said he doesn't see you the same anymore (probably meaning he doesn't trust you), you are still open to being in a relationship with him? Now he's mad because you won't give him the attention he wants. If your intent is to end the relationship, say that to him in as plainly as you can, whether through text or with a phone call, and then block him on all of your social media (including Facebook) and your phone so that you're not continuing to keep yourself tied to him. Hopefully doing those things will really help you to move on.

And if you choose to stick around, never forget that trust can be difficult to regain once it's lost. If he doesn't trust you, he doesn't really love you.