How am I meant to react to a friend who got engaged after a month of dating?

[Julia35]

I am sure she has heard a lot of honesty from her other friends and family. Do you think she will listen to them. Probably not. If she is 32 she will not change her needy behavior. She is probably depsperate to have kids. That is why she is rushing into this. She will make her own decision and not listen to you. No matter how much advice you give her. That is not going to change her mind.

My brother in law has the same behavior. He got so desperate he married a Vietnam bride after 2 weeks. He met her online. I warned him about it. He would not listen. He now is unhappy. And has been married a year and they both already talk of divorce.

Your friend will learn on her own, they all do.