Should I add my crush on fb?

[Mike A]

Well, the great thing about facebook is that you can often tell if someone is gay/bi or straight by their gender preference. Generally, when people list their gender of preference, they either do it honestly or not at all. I myself am bi but I just left that blank so it doesn't show up.

I don't see much wrong with sending him a request on Facebook. You could simply say something like "Hey, I know you! We have class together. hows it going?" then hit send. If he is actually up for connecting with people he just knows by association he will accept your friend request. Then you should feel him out from there.

See how he feels about homosexuals first. Mentioning a gay celebrity in conversation, and acting like you just heard they were gay might be a good way to test the waters. The latest celebrity to come out publicly is Ricky Martin, so mentioning "Oh my god, Ricky Martin is gay?" in a surprised manner will get some kind of reaction. If he seems to be okay with the idea of men being gay from that conversation, then maybe you should tell him that you are gay. You can do this all either online or in person.

So if he also responds positively or even apparently gets excited by the fact that you are gay, then its a strong hint that perhaps you should see where this goes. Do beware of trying to date someone who is bi-curious. In the end, it will be an experiment for them, and you might just have them break up with you one day with the explanation that they just aren't gay. And this could be after years of being together.

So as long as you know what your getting into, and how to approach this guy, things should go okay. You might just end up with a friend who is cool with you being gay but doesn't wanna go there with you, you might end up with a friend with benefits or you could end up dating.

Give what I said a shot. Good luck

And that's the best advice I can give