relationship issues. please read and reply!?

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"even if it was a matter of me just being emotional, insecure, and childish (which its not)"

Oh, yes it is. Before he was YOUUUUR boyfriend (and seriously, how can you type out a whine like that and claim you're not being childish with a straight face?), he had an independent existence. His girlfriend existed. The memories exist, whether there are photographic records or not. You cannot erase her and the impact she had on his life by deleting these pictures, and feeling threatened enough by them to need the record destroyed is ridiculous. Back down, acknowledge this is not that big a deal, and maybe he'll decide he doesn't need to keep them after all. Or maybe not, but if you don't let them impact your daily lives, then who cares?