WHY AM I SO JEALOUS AND OBSESSED!? HELP>:(?

[lady]

Honest answer: She is pretty, angelic looking and she seems nice. I don't doubt that she has a ton of friends and definitely has a ton of perks from a lot people. Boys will fall head over heals for her and she won't be single for very long. I don't blame you for being jealous - she's got everything you wish you could have. You know deep down her life will be easy. But let's take your argument apart shall we:

She's got 4000 Facebook friends. Really? Good for her. Here's what's bothering you about this: she gets a ton of attention. When something good happens 4000- friends will yay for her, when something bad happens 4000 friends will feel for her and try to comfort her. Ask yourself this: How many of those 4000 friends does she really know? I have a hard time keeping track of 10 people, much less 4000. I don't know about you but I am uncomfortable having hundreds of acquaintances knowing my business.

Your friends constantly bring her up. Could it be that they're jealous too? Perhaps they admire her, but why bring someone up like that obsessively. And to say the same thing about her too like a broken record. Apparently no one knows what else to say about her other than that.

She's pretty and you want to look like her. I'd like to look like her, too! But here's the thing, not everyone really digs that. There are men out there who dig a different type of girl. Like a girl who has intelligence, same religious and political beliefs, values and talent. She might be some of those things, but she can't be everything.

I understand you being jealous - it's natural. However, that will wear off.