Why do I always have to message her?

[SGM]

It's time to 'man up' and find out for sure. You can't be a wimp all your life. Part of being a man is taking risks.

Message her only one thing: "Hi, Susie. When is the best time to call so I can ask you out on a proper date?" (If you don't have her phone number, then you say "Hi, Susie. I need your phone number and also tell me when is the best time to call so I can ask you out on a proper date?"

Either she gives you her number & an exact time or she doesn't. But at least you know for sure if she is worth your time, or if you should move on and ask another girl out.

If she gives you a time, you better call her at that time with a day, time & place already picked out for your date offer to her. No more messaging after that. Save the conversation for the date.