How to get a new girlfriend?

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First you need to learn to appreciate yourself before you can expect anyone else to appreciate you. It sounds like your past relationship was extremely co-dependant, which lead to suffering on both parts. You need to learn to love yourself and become an independant person before you can expect someone else to love you. People often look for other people to love them because they are lacking in self-respect and confidence. Build on these things first before trying to find a mate who will give you those feelings. Try to find someone with the same interests as you, it seems hard but there's so many places to look. The internet, school, work and just daily life provide you with the opportunity to meet some one you like.