a married co-worker searching for sexual...?

[Margot]

Well gee, you haven't minded your business already, why start now. You come across as judgmental and nosy because you don't like her. Perhaps she set up a fake account and left it open to catch you in the act. For all you know, her husband also has a fake account and she was writing to him...in an attempt to catch you.

How do I know you don't like her? Well, let's see....
1. You say you were "forced" to sit at her desk.
2. You make the comment that she checks FB from work forgetting that this is the company's machine. When you are no more concerned about the company's machine since you were checking FB from work too.


How do I know you are nosy? Because as soon as you saw that her FB was open, you didn't immediately close out of her account. And you snooped. Who cares if you saw a different photo and that it was unusual. You went the extra step to read her messages in detail and click on her profile page to see her marital status and who knows what else. So much for you respecting the company's computer.

Oh, and now instead of simply keeping it to yourself or casually mentioning it to her, you want to destroy her marriage by reporting what you saw to her husband. And you further gossip by talking about it on the internet....in a oh so helpful what should I do fake concern sort of way.

Leave it alone. And quit snooping. She set up a fake account to catch you.