Alright ladies and gents....tough question.?

[ILeftMyHeartinOdessa]

I am 26 years old. I have liked the same guy since I was 12. He is 31. Was 19 when I met him. I know what I feel and have felt is real. I don't know what to do or say. We are both extremely reserved, quiet, and shy.
I don't have his number. We see each other rarely due to conflict of current schedules. We talk some on FB, but that's not real communication.
Ladies, how would you go about making the first move?

Gentlemen, I am really great at writing letters and penning beautiful words. I want to write him an anonymous letter and send it to him, because I know his address. Guys, how would you like to be approached by a woman who had feelings for you, and you do too?

I just don't want to say everything all at once and spoil everything. Help!!