Do sites like craigslist men-for-men and manhunt make you ashamed to be gay?

[collegebound]

I have an ad. I use it because I have hope one day I will cross a guy that wants something similar. I have came to the conclusion that in my small town I have to be discreet and well through myspace and facebook it is not a private party so I have to ponder on the idea that they are even interested in the same sex.

I cant lie though, I have marketed myself at one point but I believe it is a maturity thing we all go through. There is a point in a gay/bi life where they want something permanent and faithful. We aren't really good at that though. I wish we were especially knowing I want something like that so badly. But we have not evolved enough to stop being so destructive to our bodies. Every guy I have met has been looking for nothing more then sex, even straight men who are even married. I just think again as a gender we are bad at this.