Is it counted as cheated ? I think so , if he wants a fresh start ! ?

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My ex wants to get back together for the sake of our unborn child but he won't unblock me from facebook or msn and I have to call him after he gives me a miss call . He says that I will contact the girl he cheated on me with for seven months and he doesn't want to delete her cos he loves her and he eventually will stop talking to her . He says if me and him are together its not like he's kissing her or having sex with her , how the hell is that a fresh start ?!

By the way all three of us live in different countries

He says that when he comes here(uk) next year hell drop her

Is it over reacting if I don't wanna see him

Should he be able to say I'm keeping him from his daughter

Ps he has cheated , he was both verbaly and physically asbusive

And doesn't do anything even when I was in his country , that he will only help me when he's here

And that if I don't contact him or still agree to be his sponser .I'm a bad mother and if I want to give her up for adoption 'may god curse me'
That I should instead bring her to him so that she can Bbe raised by his mother