HELP I can't forget him. He put me through hell and has a new gf after 4 weeks but I ALWAYS think about him. Why can't I

[Coca-Cola Vanilla]

I think it is the forbidden fruit complex. You want what you can't have. I had a boyfriend that I had been with for a fairly long time (a year and a half) and he started, toward the end, to treat me like shit. So, I planned on dumping him but he was able to pull the trigger before me. I was so upset and did just about everything you do. I became obsessed. I even looked up guys on Facebook with the same names (yeah women can be crazy!) but why did I do this? Because he became the forbidden fruit. He made himself something that I can't have by dumping me first.

The way I got over it is I countinuesly though of all the crappy things he did to me and to people in general. Which made so I could move on to a new guy which made myself totally get over him. It hurts to get dumped no matter what the situation is. So, do everything you can to feel better about yourself. Think of all the ways he hurt you, abused you, and used you. Stop eating shitty foods. Eat healthy, workout, and go out and have fun! The best medicine for a breakup is a big FU I love my life and I hate yours.