if i pay child support and the mother will not let me see the child but we have shared custody what can i do?

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Collect evidence on her and file a motion under a federal program that does not require the hiring of an attorney, to enforce your access rights.
http://dads-house.org/VisitationNAccessRights
http://dads-house.org/GettingStarted-Fat...milyCourts

http://ChildSupportRights.org/WhatPayersNeed2Know
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Federal Child Support Enforcement Handbook for Non-Custodial Parents
http://childsupportrights.org/
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To learn a father's rights, join Dads House Educational Center in Yahoo Groups. It's free to join and access all materials. You also associate with other fathers going through, and have already gone through, the same issues. We have an Educational Manual that teaches everything that needs to be known in addressing your legal issues. Mention your question here when asked why you want to join, as well as your state?
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Dads_House_Ed_Ctr/
http://www.youtube.com/DadsHouseEdCtr
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2nd Wife Club in Yahoo Groups, for those brave enough to take on a man with "baggage".
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/2ndwifeclub/
http://www.facebook.com/proudstepmoms
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For 22 years, I have volunteered my time working with divorced/single fathers dealing in family law issues, such as child support, teaching them about what the states are not telling support obligors.
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