why do people hate women who sleep around?

[curious1]

Wow there are so many elements to our question.

Firstly a guy who has a girlfriend and wont respond to another girl on facebook should be congratulated not hated. There are not enough men in the world like this. Just confirming really that this guy would have made a great boyfriend for you and now you have blown it completely. If there was ever a chance you could have been with him in a relationship you have now blown any chance except for having sex with him.


Next i say this to you. Having sex with as many people as you like is really noones business but yours. Noone really has the right to judge you as its your life and your body.
However, i question your motives. Revenge is a really silly reason to have sex with anyone, and i suspect that you doing this and ignoring the guy has made just about no impact on his life, but will somehow come back to bite you.

Its taken me years of experience to learn something. If there is something that you want there are authentic ways to get it. You have made this into something so convoluted and complicated that in the end you are going to end up with nothing.

You have to ask yourself what is it that you really want... seems you dont really know. If its just sex, my advice to you is to find people you arent likely to ever see again in your everyday life, and stop sending pictures. Why? Because at some stage, and who knows when... maybe 5 years down the track you might meet the man of your dreams, the one you want to marry and have kids with. You go to meet his family and uh oh, realise you have slept with his brother and his cousin and whats more they have photos to prove it.
And its not about being a woman and sleeping around, i wouldnt want a man who had slept with my friends and had photos to prove it either. It says a lot about character.

So, have your sexual experiences but learn to be discreet and discerning, dont send pictures or let someone take pictures.Dont give people proof, i am not joking here you will regret it later. So be careful.

Above all be authentic and think before you act. Learn that someone in a relationship who would cheat or leave the relationship to be with you, will probably do the same to you. It isnt a game.