Do sites like craigslist men-for-men and manhunt make you ashamed to be gay?

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Those kinds of sites sometimes make me feel ashamed to be HUMAN, since there are sites like that for everyone, regardless if they're gay, straight, bi or lesbian. On the other hand, it's probably not a good idea to go around being so judgmental. I think you'd be surprised, nay...SHOCKED to discover that some of your closest friends and/or family members might be using such sites to get off. You never know. Besides, people use myspace and facebook for the same thing..it just takes them longer to get results. At least with craigslist et al. people can be perfectly up front and honest about what they're looking for. Frankly, i think it's more reprehensible for someone to place a profile the says they're seeking "friendship" or "love" when what they're REALLY seeking is a quick roll in the hay.

It's great thing to have morals but self-righteousness is much uglier thing than immorality.