Was I Wrong to BREAK UP Her Marriage?

[DevilDoll]

So many things to say here. Let me start with this: you came on here looking for people to validate your actions. People will not because you are wrong. I have worked in the food service industry for many years, and have encountered similar situations, so I know what I am talking about.
Secondly, stop making updates. If you counter every single comment every person makes you'll be glued to the computer for a year. So stop updating, your story is not that important.
What you did is what I would call an @$$hole move; however, that being said I don't think you ended her marriage. Something as lame as a fake profile could never tear my husband away from me. Things in their marriage had to be pretty bad already for a fake Facebook profile to be the last straw. Perhaps that is why she was so nasty in the first place. Maybe she knew her marriage was coming to an end and took it out on you. Who knows? The point is that there's no way you single handedly ended her marriage. Especially if she wanted him back and he still filed for divorce. Maybe that was his "out."
At the end of the day, I think you completely overreacted and you definitely cross boundaries and likes that I would never cross. Try to remember that you are not perfect, just like her, and god forbid one day you piss someone off and they have the same reaction to you that you had to her. Then you'll be here on this message board again complaining about the waitress who ruined your marriage just because she didn't like your attitude.
See how that works? Quit being a f****** kunt.