Was I Wrong to BREAK UP Her Marriage?

[Pat]

Seems quite a few people on here are judging you unfairly in my opinion.

First off i must say two wrongs don't make a right. That said what's done is done and now its down to damage limitation.
She never should have written what she wrote and insulted you, equally you should not have reacted in the manner that you did.

You obviously took offence and reacted without putting any thought into the consequences of your actions, and in your defence hindsight is 20/20 and had you known i figure you would have not reacted the way you did.

Your defence should be you actions were set off by her insult directed at you and you were not in a normal frame of mind.

One other thing i must add, her marriage can't have been that strong if they are still going ahead with the divorce over this and more so the fact they both know it was fake.

Hope it works out for you and going forward remember look before you leap.