Is it wrong for birth parents to track down kids they gave off for adoption on Facebook?

[Vanessa Numero Uno]

Well, if the adoptive parents would have kept up with their end of the bargain (in many cases of bogus open adoptions), someone's mother contacting them in any capacity when they are of age would not be so much of a "shock of their lives". Since so many adopters make off with the children the covet and pretend the biological relatives don't exist, sure, it may be shocking but they are not to blame for this. The people who hoarded them all to themselves are.

I have heard of many adoptive families getting all bent out of shape when someone's mother "finds" them. This is called "modern technology" and I think it is great people can find lost relatives. I am sure adopters didn't have this in mind all those years ago when they were scurrying off with the infant of another woman, but tough doggie doo...

For those of you who conned a mother of her infant, cut her out of the picture then get your panties in a bunch when she finds her child, too damn bad if you don't like it. I for one, don't give a shit. That's what you get for being selfish, greedy, entitled dirt bags...