if i pay child support and the mother will not let me see the child but we have shared custody what can i do?

[Big Horn Basin]

Your problem is a common one which law enforcement deals with regularly, but the answer varies from state to state. In my state child custody is considered to be a "civil issue" despite a specific state law concering custodial interference. My advice is to call your local police or sheriffs office and ask for a civil standby. Have your current child custody order, or certified copy with you, when you go to pickup your child. While the officers may not take any action, they make really good witnesses when you hire the meanest attorney you can afford and take the ex spouse back to court for contempt charges!