Why are some filipino kids so spoiled?

[INDEPENDANT MARK2]

You are right in a lot you say. I have my wife's relatives there and they are NOT that well off yet two different families have young children who are just spoilt rotten. Why I don't know. One is a boy of about 7 years who has his own full time Yaya. This kid gets his butt wiped for him literally. Spoon fed ! I kid you not. The Yaya feeds him his meals. When I am there I refuse to go to that house and waffle on what a lovely boy he is. They all FAWN on this kid and I personally think it is a bit sick really. The other one is a girl. She is ALWAYS eating and she is--quite plainly a fat little horror. She has all the other kids in fear she will--tell her mama. I'd like to slap the parents. It's not the kid's fault but the high and mighty parents. The joke of it all is they are not rich, and the excess money spent to pander to these two brats is a huge and gross waste. I no longer send them stuff. If they have money to pander to their kids like that, they can darn well buy their own stuff, Im no longer including my hard earned stuff in Balikbayan boxes which cost me money for families who act like this.
Call me a bad person I don't care but hand fed at 7 is bloody ridiculous in the Philippines or anywhere else in my opinion.