would you confront a woman that your man was?

[usck]

I would NOT say anything to anyone except my own man. and if YOUR man wants to be in contact with that woman it is his wish, se does not owe u anything, so she does not need to be loyal to u. u re crossing your boundaries. if I were that woman u had audacity to write I would answer u to get somewhere the sun does not shine and I wouldn't mean London.

[Mr Mackey]

No. Thats shitty but the only person you should be angry at is your boyfriend.

[david b]

Your not making any sense. Your guy is a cheater. If you scare off the one he's trying to hook up with now, there will be someone else. He is your one and only problem in this. If he won't stop you either learn to live with it or you get out! I'd pick door number two myself.

[PROUD Mommy Of 3!!]

She's not your concern. He is. Leave her out of it because you already damaged any chance of her respecting you by sending her that last message. Nobody reacts well to a threat and because of the way u felt the need to 'inform' her that he has a girlfriend she is automatically threatened by you no matter what her motive is. If you insist on fighting with her you are inviting her to try and "win" which means she may go after your man even harder then just to spite you!

You need to deal with him and only him and be prepared to walk away if he insists on keeping this other chick around.. but dont worry.. they wont last

sorry ur going through this best of luck!

[Liz]

If I was stupid enough to stay with a cheater, I would keep my mouth shut.

[just_my_opinion]

No, I wouldn't confront her, but I would leave him, and if you choose to stay with a man knowing he's cheating on you...well, you have to take some responsibility for your situation, don't you?