Is sexting cheating? Opinion?

[Trisha]

What more do you need ?

He is saying he isn't even married, that you two have been divorced for THREE years !

Ouch.

To top it off all the nasty sex talk with another woman and showing her a picture of his privates.

This guy is not husband material for anyone at all.

He is lying to this woman he is talking to about who he really is, and he is also lying by omission to you about his faithfulness to you and the relationship.

All that's needed to cheat is the desire to cheat and the opportunity to cheat. He already has the desire to cheat, evident by the way he talks to her and now all that's needed is the opportunity which should be coming up pretty soon if he keeps "chatting" with this individual.

[STEEL]

Oh man, I think it all depends!

Reason I say that is because my wife busted ME sending naughty pictures via text. But it's not what you might initially think! A buddy of mine sent me a picture of his girlfriend, and i responded with a VERY sexy picture of my wife. She saw my phone and got pretty mad about it! But deep down I can't believe she would be THAT upset. After all, I was showing her off and bragging about her. Not texting some chick pictures of my junk!

Ironically however, we had a party and i was looking at a girls phone that we are friends with. I rolled through the photos and THERE was a picture of my wife's breasts! The SAME picture she had sent me a week earlier! I held the phone up and was laughing but also pretty ticked off. "WTF is THIS?" I said! Her face turned bright red and she looked like she was about to shrivel up and DIE!

We talked later and I told her that i wasn't mad that she text'd a picture of her breasts to another chick in a fhishnet top, but that I was mad because she got mad at me for doing the exact same thing a couple weeks earlier! How come it's okay for HER to send pictures of her breasts to her friends, but I can't! Rules shouldn't apply to one and not the other!

[Y]

I believe it is

[Steve]

Yes...and you need to call him out on it.