Haven't heard from her after first date?

[kyle]

So I'm on a dating site called okcupid and I got to talking to really nice girl on there. Last night we met for the first time and had our first date for New Year's Eve. We met at restaurant and hit it off wonderfully - there was rarely an awkward moment between us and we kept a conversation going like old friends. Later we met a friend of hers at a bar to bring in the New Year and though our conversation tapered off between us and went to her and her friend I felt like we were all still having a good time. I thought it was a great night and I really felt good about it, but I haven't heard from her ALL DAY today...I texted her this morning saying I had a good time with her but never got a reply, and I sent her a facebook message saying the same thing basically, but it says she hasn't read that yet (but I know she's been on, which is odd).

The only thing I can think of that could have made the date go sour was I eased my hand on her knee at one point just to show a little affection and to see if she'd be receptive. When her friend stepped out I asked if that was alright but she said she didn't want to move too fast, though she assured me not to take that the wrong way and said she enjoyed my company...other than that I was a complete gentleman, and I am so confused as to why she hasn't contacted me when I thought we had a really awesome date. For anyone that has any experience or perspective on this, what do you think? Should I contact her again? Wait? I am really into her and this is so disappointing...

P.S. We are both 23.

[Bre]

I know this is frustrating, but I would leave it alone. If it were me and I had really enjoyed the date as much as you had, I'd be glued to my phone, computer, any social media outlet hoping to hear from you. But that's just me. She could be playing hard to get and waiting to contact you. She could be busy. But in the end, I think I would want someone who was just as excited. So eventually, you have to decide how hard you want to pursue this and if you get as much as you give. I wouldn't contact her again. I think a text and a fb message was sufficent. Good luck

[Jimmy]

Sounds like it didn't go as well as you might have thought.

But, i feel like hand on knee is intimate enough that it shouldnt be the first time you guys touch.. that would be weird.

You should start with upper body contact.. like tapping her on the shoulder when pointing something out, or sitting next to her shoulders touching. And after she's comfortable with that, you can try touching her legs.

But, if she didn't respond to the "I had a great time last night" text, she's not into you. Move on, learn from your mistakes.

[VogueSense]

Wait to hear back from her, it hasn't been very long since your date. My first thought was she's probably hungover. If she doesn't respond in a couple days, send another message, like on Saturday. If she doesn't respond to that, then she probably doesn't have the same feelings for you. Good luck!