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Boyfriend arranged to meet girl on Facebook?
03-24-2014, 10:06 AM
Post: #1
Boyfriend arranged to meet girl on Facebook?
So basically I've been with this boy nearly 2 months now and he says he loves me and I'm the only one blah blah blah.
Anyway, the other day I was in Facebook and I came across this old fake Facebook page me and my friends made ages ago for a joke. Anyway I logged in and decided to add my boyfriend to see if he would actually talk to this 'girl' .
He messaged it straight away and I played along with it for a laugh but then I asked him if he was single and he said yea. I was angry because why would he tell a girl he doesn't know he's single? Anyway I kept it going and he then asked to meet for sex.
I said yea and he said to meet at this place and time but then I made an excuse.
Anyway, I'm absolutely fuming. Why would he do that? That clearly means he would cheat on me right? I don't know what to do now. Should I tell him that was me? Or what? I want to ask him about it but don't want to seem a weirdo who had a fake Facebook page...

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03-24-2014, 10:14 AM
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He might know it's you...

Or, arrange to meet him, and turn up yourself. He seems a bit sly..

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03-24-2014, 10:24 AM
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Yes, your boyfriend would cheat on you and now who is to say he doesn't already have girls in his message box that he talks to like that.

You need to play it safe, but most likely end it and move on.

This guy is wrong for you.
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03-24-2014, 10:28 AM
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I'd just break up with him. You clearly can't trust him because he agrees to meet women on the internet for sex. He clearly can't trust you because you're willing to lie to him "for a laugh." It'll never work; end it.
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03-24-2014, 10:32 AM
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Nice detective work. You can handle this two ways. Either confront him straight away or arrange to meet up and nail him that way. Just out of curiosity though, are you sure he doesn't know about this fake account?
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03-24-2014, 10:39 AM
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It's weird for you to have a fake facebook and to try and bait your boyfriend into cheating on you. It definitely shows some untrustworthy behavior on your part.

But coincidentally, he's an asshole. Yes, he was going to cheat on you. Very obviously. You should confront him and break up with him immediately. He will either say "I knew it was you!" to cover his butt (you'd know if there was any way he could have found out about the account), or he'll call you out for trying to spy on him (which you'll just have to accept, because I mean, you are guilty of that).

Next time you should be in a relationship with someone you actually trust. Because if you feel the need to talk to them on a fake account, you obviously don't trust them all that much.
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