Overprotective mom?Sex?Im almost 15?10 points!!!!!!?

[Infinite Monkeys]

With the advent of the internet and the subsequent ease with which porn and sexual related materials are infiltrating the everyday lives of not simply adults, but young adults, teenagers and even pre-teens. It is foolish at best to believe that sexual curiosity will not arise at younger ages then that of previous generations.
Unfortunately many parents are ill prepared to respond to this ever increasing age of free sex. Hence the common answers such as "I am the adult and you are the child". Do not fault your mother for making such a closed statement, it is quite evident that she is simply attempting to protect you and while most if not all members of younger generations believe that they "can handle themselves", the truth is, and yes you will realize this in time as we all have, you cannot handle yourselves.
While it is ignorant at best to say say that a 14 or 15 year old should not be considering having sex, the hard truth is that you will consider it, and you may even have it. And while it is easy to blame poor parental guidance, peer pressure or even a lack of self understanding. The Hard truth remains that the world we live in thrusts violence and porn down our throats. Because it SELLS. There is no greater pride than seeing beyond that which is forcefully fed to us through the ever intrusive media.
Bottom line, listen to your mother, and in time you will understand why she has said what she has said and you understand why she erred in the way she said what she said.
She may well be too conservative and overprotective, however your self avowed overdose, and your contact with older boys would be cause for alarm for any parent.
Everyone is held accountable for their actions in this world.
Be well, be safe.

[Pandora]

Good I am glad to see some parents taking responsibility!! YDI

[London Babe]

I'd tell her if she doesn't unground me & put me back in school I'm going to have sex & get pregnant & attempt & be successful in suicide because your mom sounds like a bitch & too controlling.

London Babe

[Courtney Allan]

I would hate to be in your situation! im not even joking. everyone on here is writing 'oh your mothers right blah blah blah' yeah okay, she's just trying to protect you, but If I were you I would have gone insane.. why don't you go live with your dad or stay at a friends.. also, im not sure where your living but in England, it's kinda normal if people around 14years old have had sex.. they can't control EVERYTHING you do.. it will affect you badly when you grow up.. you need to stand up to your mum. every teenager does things like this, she needs to understand this.. your completely normal to 'nearly' have sex and go to parties, I don't see the problem to be honest.. you need to speak to your mum and don't let her walk away from you. go out for a meal or something and tell her EXACTLY how your feeling and if you are out for a meal she can't walk off and if she says 'I don't want to talk about it' just say 'well I do.. and I'm going to speak, it's up to you whether you listen'

good luck. don't go insane and stand up to them! ;D