Wife Cheated 2 years ago, still cant get over it?

[b0rnbad]

Obviously there is osmething missing in your marriage. Your Wife needs whatever that thing is. In my opinion you have three choices:
1. Figure out what that thing is that's missing and give it to your Wife.
2. Leave her
3. Get over it and allow her to have some privacy. Just remember that what's good for the goose is good for the gander.

[ShootingStarr]

She is still obviously thinking about the other guy. Why would she want to keep their messages as memories. She is not true to you and it wil be hard for you to trust her again. Trust is something that a person have to gain, you just don't give anyone trust. They have to earn it. Also, you won't be able to get over her cheating on you. I'm still not over my husband cheating on me and it's been years. It's either you be with her or you don't. If she could prove to you that she is worth keeping then it's worth a try to give her a chance. If she doesn't show remorse for what she did then she's not worth your love.

[Patricia]

As long as you insist on living in HER PAST, and rehashing her mistakes, you're never going to move forward.

You are living RIGHT NOW... right now, you don't have any problems. Those who live in the moment are the most content souls.

This does not mean there are no life problems, but i have discovered most of our issues work themselves out without any action from us whatsoever.

Bring yourself forward to this moment.