Does anyone else see this as assholish?

[TheFriendlyPurpleDragon]

I've heard it's different once in college, but I've realized through middle school and high school for some reason people have certain groups of friends and if you don't fit in with them they won't have contact with you outside of school (even if it's just texting, facebook … ect.) Dies anyone else see that as fucked up ? Or is my view just blurred cos I don't really fit in with many people so it's hard for me to make friends. Or are these people really just assholes, or merely following the social norms? Thoughts ?
Gabve- Just do what ?

[TheFriendlyPurpleDragon]

They're going with what society think we should be like. Be yourself, I'm a misfit too. I have friends but I don't fit in with them because I'm so different. It will be different in college, at least I hope so, I think they're more mature in college than to label you in a group like middle school and high schoolers, but who knows? Also there will be more people like us in college than high school. I would just sit at lunch and not say anything, even though i do have friends and they're in different groups, I don't fit in no where with them, it's kind of sad, but I will not change because I will only end up hating myself more.

[postal p]

You are right. Many people are cliquish in high school. In college more people are independent. You will do better there.