Having trouble with my wife having a Facebook behind my back can you help please?

[Fruity]

I truly know how you feel because my husband did the same thing to me! His fb had nothing to do with me, just himself and talking to other women plus his ex gf. You need to ask her why is she keeping her fb secretly away from you? And that if there is nothing to hide then she shouldn't be so secret of it. I told my husband that if he still want to continue on with this relationship then for him to deactivate his fb and stop talking to those women. It's not fair that were over here loving them thinking that they are doing the same back, but the truth is they are a two face living in a double life. You need to put your foot down and let your wife know that it's either she's in the relationship or she's out. Someone that has a secret fb behind their partner's back can lead to cheating that's why they are hiding it from you. Just tell her how you feel because things are not going to work out if the other partner is being secretive. Best of luck!

[Bradley]

Simple she likes the attention she is getting from these Facebook men of hers. A lot of women have self esteem issues especially after kids and look for attention wherever they can find it. She wants the attention to make her feel good and boost her self esteem and worth. But she is living in a fantasy world by acting like a single woman and not a married wife. In her mind its just innocent flirting and nothing would never happen. But when you play with fire you eventually get burned. She is opening a gateway that can lead to emotional cheating which then naturally leads to physical cheating. She needs to realize that she has children and a husband and have respect for you and them. She needs to get out of the fantasy world and rejoin reality. I have always had a problem with Facebook and like sites because it makes it real easy to connect with others get lost from reality for certain people. Have a conversation with your wife and ask her if she is ok with you opening a Facebook account to flirt with other women online. Ask her what she is missing that she seems to need to be filled by flirting online with men. Go to counseling if needed to get everything out in the open to strengthen your marriage.