I feel like Im settling for less than I deserve?

[Another Crone]

Get yourself your own little hideaway someplace and move into it. Next week. Get a month to month rental. Cherish , honor and adore .... doesn't sound like that's how you're living.

If you just moved yourself (you're unhappy and living with a fiance you are unhappy with = single) into your own little space so that he had the room to think about how you fit into his life, and vice versa, it could be a very good thing. Of course you don't have to settle for far, far less than what your nature needs.

His changing focus is 100% understandable but it does suck for you and I'm sorry. He's likely very high on life right now and just can't help himself! He's a different guy. That's bound to be true. No real predicting how this'll turn long term. Short term? Of course he's soaking it all up.