my boyfriend shook me against a wall because i wasnt being "nice "and now my ribs hurt. i need advice pls read?

[ME-O]

Dump him, I was in a situation like this and I felt so much for him but as soon as I dumped him I felt like this weight was off my shoulders I wasn't depressed anymore and I was happy for the first time in a year. Yeah it sucks at first but you will find someone who will treat you right because that is abuse and it is no fun.

[ME-O]

Leave him. There's nothing more to say.

[BlueLove]

Leave him. That's not okay, you shouldn't have to deal with that. It's best to get out before it gets worse.

[Ariel]

You do not deserve to be physically or emotionally abused. You deserve a man that will treat you like a queen. Any man that will ever put his hands on you does not deserve you. Please, hear me when I say you deserve so much better. You won't find the right one spending time with the wrong one and honey- he is the wrong one.

[Mackenzie]

Leave. Nobody deserves anything. Before you do anything tell somebody you trust. Don't let him hurt you girl.

[SFE]

This is only the beginning, it will only get worse.
Nobody has the right to abuse anyone else. Nobody has the right to use strength against another person.
He doesn't respect or care about you. Do not fool yourself into believing he does.

Get out now, before it gets worse.
Tell someone you trust BEFORE you break up with him, and tell them all the details of when and where you plan to break up with him, and make a plan to call that person after it is done. If they don't hear back from you, can't get in touch with you after they will know all the details and be able to get the police involved if your safety is in danger. (Not saying it will even get to that point, but this guy clearly has anger issues that he is unable to control and anything could set him off/he could go 'too far' at any time. You need to watch yourself around people like this, abusive/angry people.)

If you remain with him I promise you the abuse will only get worse with time, not better.
He needs professional help, and the best thing for him and especially for everyone else (other women/people that he could potentially hurt if you let him get away with this) is to tell authorities.
He needs to know there will be punishment for his unacceptable behaviour.
If you stay with him, you are giving up ANY right to complain. There is NO reason to stay with someone who doesn't respect you, love you or care about you. There is NO reason to stay with someone who makes you feel worthless. There is NO reason for you to stay with him. He hurts you emotionally/mentally AND physically. There is nothing good about him as a person.
His father hates him because he knows he raised a horrible son, who never became a REAL MAN.
REAL MEN do NOT use strength/their hands to win arguments with anyone, especially their partners.
If you stay with him, you are just as responsible for the pain he causes you as he is.
If you let him get away with this (or more), you are just as responsible for any future pain he causes to other people.

You do not deserve this. You deserve better. You don't NEED to feel like this.
You CAN feel happy/respected/loved, you just need to get out of this relationship/situation and surround yourself with good people (friends, family etc).

Do not just sit here feeling this way. Do something about it. LEAVE. It's easy. Leave and never look back.
Erase his contact information from your phone, delete him from any social media sites, stop all communication with him and forget about him.
He is the worthless one here, not you.
If he doesn't respect/love you NOW (while you are technically committed partners?) then why would he show you anything different or 'better' after the relationship? There is NO reason to remain in contact with him. He is not a friend. He is just a selfish, malicious and abusive pathetic excuse for a man.
Forget about him and find new, better people to spend your time with (not just romantically, you should have decent friends to support you as well).