Upset that my boyfriend watches..... PLEASE HELP?

[digimutt]

No you are not alone and that feeling has destroyed many a marriage. Listen women everywhere would be far better off if they just realized that men do not stop being men just because they are married or with someone. Most men look at porn at some point to some degree. for the majority it means little more than watching a ball game or how women used to watch soap operas every day. It has nothing to do with anything about you or how he feels about you. It has everything to do with him being a man. Women like to fantasize in their heads, men have less imagination and so they want to see it Men are very visual, it is how they are wired.

You can accept this or you can throw a fit and make it a big deal and he will start to hide his watching from you. When you find out you will be upset about it and angry because he lied to you about it. Don't force him to make a promise that he almost cannot help breaking. Grow up, stop being sick and jealous and insecure about this or you are going to wreck your marriage.

[l8tr g8tr]

I watch porn from time to time and enjoy it very much. My ex husband used to; my last boyfriends have and my current one does too. Doesn't bother me in the least bit. When we have sex it's great! It's frequent enough to make me happy and pleasurable too. Can't ask for more...

Then again, I don't spend my hours concerning myself and obsessing over my partners masturbation habits. I have better things to do with my time.

[rock of ages]

No, I don't like it either.

[virgil]

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/women/sex/670...-find.html

Yeah- even those girls who proudly proclaim- "My bf doesn't watch porn!". Either they watch porn or they lie about it

Unfortunately I'm one of those guys who keeps my porn secret from my gf because I know it would hurt her. Eventually women will just have to tolerate it!

[Adam]

He should be doing that shit in private.